Did you recently breakup with your partner? Thought they would be the love of your life? Struggling through the stages? It’s okay I got your back. Ill give you three tips to get through a breakup.
No Contact Rule
You and your ex broke up for a reason. Never forget you’re strong and are very capable of doing this. The no contact rule needs to take place in order to truly grieve and heal. By not doing so you are only slowing down the process.
Accept Your Emotions
That’s right let it all out! You should never feel bad about feeling bad. This is a natural process called grieving. Just as you do when you lose a loved one. Accept the sadness, anger, loneliness, whatever it may be. Just know it will be okay.
Got get that degree! Go travel! Before loving another person you must love yourself. If you lost yourself in your relationship find it again. Remember, who you are and what you love. Remember, your favorite cafe? Go there and get a coffee and write a list of 5 things that make YOU happy. Don’t forget to nourish your body as well to complete your healing from inside to out.
At the end of the day never forget your goals and how much of a beautiful person you are. Love should never hurt emotionally, physically, etc. So, whatever the case may be never doubt your decisions. When you have that gut feeling trust it. Lastly, pain is temporary but choosing to be happy is forever. Just breath and know this too shall pass.
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How is everyone? Good? Living? Recently I spoke of how I really don’t know what I’m doing. I had a thought of moving to Mexico…then an issue arose. I found it is very hard for people/Americans to find a job there and if they do it probably won’t pay well. You usually do not see Americans going to work in Mexico because of this issue. Mostly for vacation. The cost of living in DF is kind of high compared to other places in Mexico. You can relate it to living in Los Angeles but with its own spin. My job hunt ended rather…well you can say disappointing. For now I think my best bet will just be visiting as much as I can. Maybe, live there for a short period of time. Who knows!
Thought of the day: just because things don’t work out, doesn’t mean you should give up.
It has been some while since I have written, two months roughly. Right now my life is in a bit of a chaos. The high from traveling is no more and I am beginning to see reality. Right now my travel plans are on hold as I am unsure of where I will be going or if I am going. I think at this point in my life I have many things to figure out, then maybe I can travel. No matter where you run or go your problems will follow.
I think all college graduates go through this, an initial reaction of wtf am I doing with my life? It’s one of those things that is not talked about much, people just say enjoy your years of college as it will be the best years of your life. When you’re in college you think no way how can this be the best years of my life? Quizzes, tests, research that’s no fun (sarcasm). When you look back though you will realize it really was, the best years of your life. College was one of the best learning experiences and I made life long friends that made it even better.
Now, I can only hope and pray for the best to come. As my future is unknown but I will keep looking for what is right. Remember, always do what makes you happy!
Time where has it gone?
So much has changed for me in the last year. I lost people and gained some people. My mistakes have taught me to know better. I am glad everything happened as I wouldn’t be who I am today. My stay here in Mexico is almost up, meeting my family for the first time, only speaking Spanish it was amazing. I will miss them but I will be back. My life will no longer be the same in two months. I am excited and scared for the future. But have high hopes for great travels and meeting new people.
Shout out to my few best friends and family for being the real mvps! You will always be in my heart and be with me wherever I go. I am thankful for you all. So sappy I know. Haha. So cheers to lost pathways and new beginnings.
A photo in Veracruz
My blog is a direct reflection of what’s going on in my mind. People say to be a successful blogger you must target a certain audience and interests. I must say as a new blogger I have much ways to go. However, I enjoy writing and using my blog for whatever reflections I am having. Really I don’t care if I have a few followers or such. What matters here is that I enjoy writing and I am more than happy to share my experiences with others. I am not directing my blog to any certain audience just if you like what you see, feel free to keep reading.
I think people these days are so indulged in trying to be successful that they forget the real reason behind things. Remember what is important to you and don’t care so much what others think. Do what makes you happy. As in life you can never make everyone happy. Many will want you to live the life they want or always dreamed of, so stay true to yourself. Blogging makes me happy. So, what makes you happy?